“A gossip is one that talks to you about others; a bore is one who talks to you about himself; and a brilliant conversationalist is one who talks to you about yourself”. Lisa Kirk
Which one of these best describes your chat activity with others? Determining this may give you some insight into why you are or are not successful in attracting people who are a good fit for you. Learn how to take a sincere interest in others and they will take a sincere interest in you.